Happiness is ______ {2014-W13} #happinessis


We spent 52 weeks in 2013 celebrating what made us happy, and it WAS a fantastic year. Let’s make 2014 the year where we really truly focus on surrounding ourselves with only joy and happiness all year round, every month, every week, every day.Tell me, what makes you happy? What is it that you do [...]

My Husband’s Promotion!

promotion to master sergeant

He’s been waiting so long for this, and he didn’t want to wait a single solitary second. As soon as he was given the news that he would be a Master Sergeant as of April 1st, he began planning his promotion ceremony. April Fools or no, he was doing it. Sure, he had to face [...]

I Think The Medical Profession Hates Me


There’s a reason why people are afraid to go to the doctor – they’re afraid. Some are afraid of needles. Some are afraid of the tests conducted (and even more afraid of the results). Some are afraid because they fear taking medications (and their side effects being worse than what they’re taking the medicines for [...]



Blearly-eyed and sleep-deprived, I stepped off the airplane exhaustedly just after five-am, expecting to be greeted by silence in the near vacant airport. Sure, it was the holiday season, but I didn’t expect to see many souls, let alone awake ones, occupying the many airports chairs when I stepped out of the stifling tube from [...]

Happiness is ______ {Week Thirty-Nine} #happinessis

Baby Dude's birthday candles

2013 is going to be a fantastic year – a year where we collectively focus on the happy and the joy in our lives. What makes you happy? What is it that you do that you can’t get enough of? What makes your soul shine, your eyes beam, and your insides sparkle? Happiness is so [...]

The Story of Our First Home Purchase


This post is brought to you by Genworth and Brandfluential. When the orders finally came down to leave Fort Polk, we couldn’t have been more excited. Finally, after three long years stuck in the woods, secluded from civilization, we were leaving! Hooray! I swear, my husband practically showed anyone who he came across that he [...]

Why Our Retirement Plans Changed


This post is brought to you by Genworth and Brandfluential. We always kid around with our friends about our children. “With the way our son argues, he’s going to be a litigator some day.” We’ll all share a chuckle or two about his arguing skills, and how he’ll single-handedly pay for our retirement with all the money he’ll [...]

Why Women Should Learn Money Management Now

women money management

Before my husband deployed, there was a mandatory pre-deployment brief that both service-members and their families had to attend. My husband was already hip-deep in the pre-deployment military training and readiness craziness, which helps ensure the soldier is “battle ready.” It didn’t surprise me in the least to discover they had a “battle ready” seminar [...]

The Most Romantic Valentine’s Day Spent Apart EVER

my husband's valentine's gift

I never thought I’d write those words. I mean, who am I kidding. We’re always seemingly apart on Valentine’s Day. I’d (mostly) gotten used to it by now. I’ve never been the biggest fan of the “holiday” anyway, mainly only because I like decorating for it, and baking for it, but I personally don’t need [...]

Happiness is ______ {Week Six} #happinessis

pasta lover

2013 is going to be a fantastic year – a year where we collectively focus on the happy and the joy in our lives. What makes you happy? What is it that you do that you can’t get enough of? What makes your soul shine, your eyes beam, and your insides sparkle? Happiness is so [...]

Today Can Suck It


Have you ever had a day that began with burning the roof of your mouth accidentally on a warmed cinnamon roll, skinning the roof of your mouth, making fresh coffee and anything else hot too painful to consume? While you’re licking your wounds and cursing all things heated, you stumble around in your non-caffeinated state [...]

Two Weeks

hubs and me

He’s gone again. This time, for two weeks. Gone during Valentine’s day (again). He left at 3am early Monday morning, after only sleeping for a couple hours (if that). We clung to one another while we slept. I fell asleep sobbing, holding him, as I normally do the night before he leaves. Reality sets in [...]

Exclusive Military Only General Mills Coupons

General Mills-Commisary Text and Save

As if you didn’t already know this, we have a BIG family. And with a big family comes big food costs. It’s actually the most expensive thing we need to budget for. (More than our mortgage!) Being a military family, though, we have the opportunity to shop at the commissary, which is fantastic (and something [...]

YesVideo Video Memory Sharing Giveaway for Military Families

YesVideo Military conversion contest

My husband deployed Valentine’s Day 2004. I can honestly tell you that was, hands down, the worst Valentine’s Day I’ve ever experienced. Being away from us, from our children’s happenings, he was starved for photos and videos from home – some sort of normalcy amongst the chaos of war. Back then, though, it was hard [...]

Mornings From Hell™


When it was told to us that my son’s football practice would be at 6:15am BEFORE SCHOOL, I panicked. Six kids would be sleeping, to include a fussy infant. What would I do? How would I work this? How COULD I do it? He didn’t know anyone else in our neighborhood on the team, and [...]

Making It Count

feeding ducks at SeaWorld San Antonio

Some days are more frantic than others – when no matter how hard I run after it, I can’t catch my breath, I can’t find where I last placed my sanity, and a quick whiff under my arm tells me I’ve forgotten more than my first name and whether or not I had breakfast. But [...]

The Post-Deployment “Coming Home” Embrace


I saw this picture on Facebook, and my eyes immediately welled up. I have been there. I remember the feeling of wanting to look my absolute best for him, and the nervous prepping involved, fumbling with the hair dryer and shaky hand applying mascara. (I succeeded after my third attempt. Ahem.) Being dressed up for his [...]

Memorial Day


I’m always pretty torn when it comes to Memorial Day. Sure, it’s a day off, a day filled with pool openings and barbecues and get-togethers and kids frolicking in the sunshine. It’s a nice long weekend and it usually marks the end of school and the beginning of summer for most. But for military families, [...]

Kids Sleep Anywhere: The Field Day Edition

kids sleep anywhere

My seven-year-old, Super M, had his school’s “field day” yesterday. Thankfully, with all the military moves we’ve endured, and the school changes and differences in school curriculums, no matter where we’ve moved to, every school our kids have attended have held a “field” or “fun” day in which the kids get a day to be [...]

When An Ear Infection is Meningitis. Or Not. Part 2


(Continued from Part 1) “I bet this is the first ambulance ride you’ve ever had for a patient who only has an ear infection, huh?” “Wait, what?” The EMT gripped his clipboard and pen tightly. “We were called for possible sepsis and meningitis.” “WHAT? What the hell is sepsis?!?” I yelled while gritting my teeth. [...]

When An Ear Infection is Meningitis. Or Not. Part 1


“Ma’am, if it’s all the same to you, we’ve been here over an hour waiting for this ambulance. This is getting ridiculous. We don’t even NEED one, we can drive ourselves.” “I’m told they’re here in the clinic somewhere. They’ll be here shortly. I promise.” The nurse responded, touching my arm compassionately. This old woman [...]

Thank You, Unnamed Soldier


Thank you, unnamed soldier. Thank you for your service to this nation. I did not know you, but you were my husband’s brother-in-arms. You also would have been my husband’s first Casualty Assistance case. I do not know any details of what happened to you, only that you were dying in hospice, surrounded by loved [...]

The Morning Surprise (aka Ways to Jolt Your Pregnant Mother into Hyper-Mode)


This “What the Heck!?” moment is brought to you today by the letters W- T- F, and the number 7 (for my seven-year-old). It never fails. The day my husband absolutely has to be at work super-ridiculously early for a PT Test, I get the best worst most-effective wake-up call first thing in the morning. [...]

6 Ways You Can Help the Military


This Veteran’s Day, people are looking for ways to help our military, either in acts of service, donations, or lending their support in other ways. Here’s six different ways you may not have known about that you can help our military right now. 1. Give to help shelter a VetHomes for Our Troops helps construct [...]

Join Us for the Cheerios #sendCheer Twitter Party on 11/10 and Help Support #military Families


If you follow me on Twitter, you may have noticed I’ve been tweeting and retweeting a lot about something called “#sendcheer” lately. It’s a campaign I’m currently running with Collective Bias that I couldn’t be more excited about. As an Army wife myself, helping military families, big or small, is something I’m quite passionate about, [...]

22 Week Baby Belly


I feel “pointier” than last time, wouldn’t you agree? Kind-of like an arrow, pointing my way this way, or that way. Haha. “Where are you going, mom?” {Sticks belly out towards the kitchen} Heh. Today is a celebration – my husband comes home after two.long.freaking.weeks. of him being gone on Army assignment. Soccer is almost [...]

Halloween Schmalloween. Today is Mom’s Freaking Day Off!


Today might be Halloween, but other than dressing up and trading candy, today shall henceforth be known as MOM’S FREAKING DAY OFF, YO! Friday, Saturday and Sunday were non-stop, mom’s-gotta-go-go-goooo kind-of days that make me pant in exhaustion just thinking about them. I tried to stop and take a belly bump pic, but honestly? I [...]